For many, many years, I had a poster of the words I’m going to share with you in a (cheap) frame and always hung it where I’d see it often. I’d had it long enough that it was getting yellowed, and I suspect that, during a move, the frame did not survive so I tossed it out.
These words always spoke deeply to me. They brought me a lot of calm and comfort when I was fighting against the voices in my head. I’ve been thinking of them a lot lately, and I finally researched to find them.
So, enjoy “I Am Me” by Virginia Satir:
“I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it — I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself. I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears. I own my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes. Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing, I can love me and be friendly with all my parts. I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know — but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and ways to find out more about me. However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me. If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought, and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded. I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me. I own me, and therefore, I can engineer me. I am me, and I am Okay.”
2 thoughts on “I Am Me”
That’s a great poem.
Considering your last post: “Wallflower”, I feel like this really fits onto that like a perfect puzzle piece. “I am me, and I am Okay.” – A strong, beautiful and resonating message.
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