This touched a nerve for me – the lack of boundaries from childhood forward – and I hope you might find some valuable information as well.
Written by Dr. Eric Perry
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Unfortunately, there are individuals who believe they are doomed to duplicate past mistakes and to repeat the same pattern of negative experiences. They mistakenly believe that it is their fault or their destiny to attract negative behaviors from others. They expect to experience and accept horrible behaviors from people they have allowed into their intimate circle of friends. Throughout their lives, their personal boundaries have been chiseled away to the point that they are nonexistent or minimal. Without healthy personal boundaries, they have adapted to allow toxic behaviors. They have become highly tolerant and resistant to behaviors that would cause individuals with healthy boundaries to sound the alarm and run.
It is important to point out that the allowance of negative behaviors, from people in your life, is not because of a law of attraction but has everything to do with the…
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